Bashing Recipezaar

Whenever a member of the site flies off the handle in the forums, we have to restrict their access to posting in the forums. It shouldn’t be a surprise that people like this then get angry and lash out — they continue the behavior that got them where they are in the first place. And they always fall back to the “censorship” cry or, worse, they puff out their chest and declare themselves “not politically-correct” as if acting like jerk is somehow noble. These people always personalize everything and try to pick a fight with us and talk about how terrible we are as people. I guess that sounds more sane than saying “that company is out to get me!”.

A review of Recipezaar from Bill J. Lau, in Waynsesville, Ohio on Alexa criticizes us and the site. Who’s Bill J. Lau from Waynesville, Ohio? We don’t know him, but coincidentally, we do know of a female member with the same last name who also lives in in Waynesville, Ohio who recently violated our Terms of Service and had their account deactivated.

Update: The Recipezaar member emailed us claiming that they are not Bill Lau and minutes later, poof, the wish list of Bill Lau is deleted. The Amazon wish list is how the true identity of “Iron Arrow” (the reviewer) was revealed. Now, all you can see is that Iron Arrow’s “nick name” is “blau1011”.

But what’s most disturbing is that this person who claims to be friends with people on our site and who has requested no less than three times to be allowed back into the forums, has this to say about their “friends” and the site they beg us to return to:

I will admit there is a community there- but from what I have witnessed of it, the members are very shallow, hypocritical, and will attack other members who give them low reviews and the like, while signing a lengthy post promising to be accepting of “honest reviews”.

Note the irony that this person wants “honest reviews” on Recipezaar, but they post a review of Recipezaar dishonestly, i.e., this is the second review (stuffing the ballot box?) they’ve posted under a different pseudonym just to bash us. πŸ˜‰ And this person wonders why we don’t want them back in the forums! It sure seems likely that, since the anger persists after weeks have gone by, that this person is just itching to lash out on our site. Our detractors bemoan the fact that we treat adults like children by giving “time outs” — we do it because adults sometimes act like children.

People will never know how hard we work to keep the community on the site a peaceful, enjoyable place, and that’s a good thing. πŸ™‚

9 thoughts on “Bashing Recipezaar

  1. I’m so sorry that you are having such stupid problems again. I love the site, but I got tired of the idiocy in the boards, even though many of the people on there are wonderful. It took a few numbskulls to make me want to stop visiting there anynore – numbskulls I believe you banned for awhile, I haven’t been back too much to check on it. I do visit to look for recipes, which is really what the site is all about. And I find them. Thanks again for all you do.

  2. Some people unfortunately lack the accountability to stand behind their statements. Good riddance to them in my opinion. They are not people that I want to have around my life.

    You guys are doing a great job! You always have, and I can’t see that changing anytime soon. πŸ™‚

  3. I am sorry to inform you that I am not Bill Lau.
    I don’t stalk your site and am only here because someone told me of this incident.
    Why don’t you leave me alone? Are you obsessed?

  4. It looks like the review has been deleted. In any case, these things probably aren’t worth worrying about in the big scheme of things. Just keep doing what attracts so many to Zaar πŸ™‚

  5. What email?
    You know, if you are so confident of your side, why not post my reply you deleted? Are you afraid people will know the truth?
    The only way you win your case is to hear your side only. Is that really satisfying?

  6. Sue, if you’re not the person posting on Bill Lau’s Amazon account, what’s the problem? Nobody mentioned your name (except you). Me thinks thou doth protest too much.

  7. Why is it that people who get banned invariably attempt to wreak revenge of some sort? 😦 What can they really hope to accomplish?

  8. Isn’t it interesting that the ex-member who hotly claims not to be connected with Bill Lau has the same last name, lives in the same place AND has a recipe on Zaar called: Bill’s Fabulous Tuna Noodle Casserole
    Recipe #275102
    The blurb says: This is one of DH [Dear husband’s] favorite casseroles. It’s really economical, but tastes like a million bucks!
    Hmmmmmm …. πŸ™‚

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